Networking Tip #1
Rub elbows with every single individual around you, even if you think you’re “safe,” because you’re not.
Presumably you are already working with an outstanding company that is fully funded with a solid foundation being built for future growth. You are high on life and are sailing with the high winds toward a glorious world of gold and product. You are enjoying your job… until it is taken away.
Let me guess… You were:
Too busy working away at your current job.
Too introverted to go buzz around events.
Too lazy to care about something like relationships.
It takes time to build relationships and you should be doing that every chance you get regardless of the excuses that surround you. Life is difficult and it isn’t going to get easier. Your job is not a right, it’s a privilege. Take care of yourself to avoid that one day where it’s pulled from you and you are standing naked and alone.
Networking Tip #2
Put on your game face because people are people and you are what matters.
You need to take care of yourself. This is a tough world to live in if you have any hopes in moving around.
Stand up for what you have done and wear it as a merit badge. You earned it through time and devotion. Don’t focus on WHO are you are talking to, but rather focus on WHAT you are talking about and your conversation will feel much more worthwhile. Let the WHO come out later.
Networking Tip #3
Exchange Business Cards!!!
Great! You met somebody!
Wait… You didn’t exchange business cards? Why?
You only spoke to them for a minute or so?
OMFGWTFOMGZ!@#*@#!!! /facepalm
The point is that once the ice is broken you are now a soft contact. You’ve ingrained a picture of your face into another person’s mind. Our mind doesn’t need a lot of time to build that memory – especially if you find somebody with a super brain. You may forget faces easy but the other person may not.
You exchanged names and shared a piece of information that you can build off of later. Exchange cards and immediately write a note on the back of the card about that conversation. In time, touch base with that information to simply say hi or spark a conversation from the data you collected.
Networking Tip #4
Don’t just flab your mouth, but act genuinely interested in the other person.
Networking is a two way street. You need to learn something about the other person. You can’t learn anything if you’re talking about things you already know for 99% of the meeting.
Ask the other person questions about themself.
How was that project you worked on?
Are you enjoying the conference? What sessions did you go to? Oh really? Tell me about that!
How are you liking the job?
If you completely own the conversation you will likely turn the individual away really fast. I say likely because you may be talking to a tech guy that would love nothing more than you owning the conversation. Help them help you by not letting the conversation fall into that trap.
And for the love of god, smile, nod, and act like you enjoy the conversation. Most people, aside from walls, are not a fan of talking to walls. Sure, you’re tired. Go home and get some sleep.
Networking Tip #5
Reach out via LinkedIn and Twitter
You really never know who is watching you these days. You also never know who might interest you in a conversation. Use these tools and be aware of the people that are out there. Follow people with similar interests because they may follow you back and will pick up on signs you lay on the ground.
Put an effort into keeping your LinkedIn profile updated with juicy information (bullet points of specific things you’ve accomplished).
Write reviews for other people (they may be inclined to write something about you).