I Share a Story of Proposal…
Seven years ago I sat on my couch in my living room at my mothers house. Across the room, in my moms rocking chair, a girl sat. Her and several of my friends used to hang out at my house, and, secretly, I thought this girl was very cute. Though, being a single little computer guy who had never once felt a kiss, I never thought that I would actually get my first girlfriend soon after her eyes caught me secretly looking at her. To this day, I’m still amazed that she is still with me. Two completely opposite people, being attracted by pure passion, dedication, and the will to succeed in life — with each other.
That is pretty much how it must be, especially if your new found relationship was about to be incredibly burdened a month later. I had enlisted in the Marine Corps nearly a year before we met. She knew that I would be going off into the Marines, and that we would need to keep this relationship alive, even though it was going to take 1200+ miles, a lot of telephone minutes, and very few visits to each other.
While time flied for me, I am willing to bet that it crawled for her, which is just a testament for how dedicated she was to this relationship.
It was a pure rarity for us to not communicate through those 4 years that I was in the Marines. Every night, for hours, we would talk to each other — even if it was just to listen to each other breathe. In 2003, it got a bit tougher. I was deployed to Kuwait, in preparation for the liberation of Iraq. Communication was extremely limited, naturally. Once the liberation had succeed, I had also been burdened by an adventure at sea that crippled our communication.
After the active duty portion of my contract had expired for the Marines, I moved to the reserve side and bolted for Kansas State University to move in with her.
A couple years later…
She graduated last May, and moved back down where we are from to start her career, while I continue to work on my B.S. degree.
On Christmas Eve of 2007, 7 years after we first started dating, It was time.
We went to dinner at P.F. Chang’s for our 7 year anniversary, and we even had our favorite waiter.
After the dinner, we took a stroll back behind the restaurant to a ‘Water Walk’ that lines the lake. Several trees lit up with bright white Christmas lights, with a background of streaming jets of water flying out of an area within the lake. I handed her a Christmas present that was a rhinestone covered fortune cookie. Within the fortune cookie, held a plate that had been engraved with the words, ‘Will You?‘ Once she recognized what it stated, I dropped to a knee, watching her break down in tears, hyperventilating, to ask, “Will you marry me?”
She said Yes, and thank God she didn’t pass out, falling into that cold lake.









